10 People Who Lost Their Families Over Inheritance

Inheritance was supposed to bring security—but for these families, it led to arguments, distance, and broken ties. Here are stories of people who lost more than money when the wills were read.

When mom died, to avoid battles, she left her savings to me with the condition that I’d use it for “the children’s future.” I thought she meant all the cousins. I suggested creating a joint fund for both families, but my sister exploded, saying the money should only go to her kids since I chose to stay childfree. I was about to agree until I overheard her on the phone, bragging to a friend that she’d use the money for a cosmetic procedure. When I confronted her, she snapped that I couldn’t go against mom’s will and that once the money was hers, it was none of my business how she spent it. That was the last time we spoke. © Juana / Bright SideMy parents were divorced before my mom died. I was 20. Since I was an only child, I was the heir. After the funeral, the remainder of the life insurance check was mailed to my dad’s house since I was on winter break and staying with him. I overheard him through the vent in my bedroom floor talking to my stepmom. She told him to steal the check, hide it, and forge my name on it so they could spend it, rather than using it to pay some of my college tuition.
I waited until the house was empty, took the check out of my dad’s hiding place, and left. Stepmom never liked me after that. She always complained about how I was spoiled, selfish, and didn’t care about “family.” © Unknown author / Reddit

At 27, I was married to a 72-year-old man, despite his many health problems. His family disapproved of our age gap and cut him off almost completely, leaving him estranged from his three heirs. When he passed, he left them nothing. They were furious, accusing me of manipulation. But they didn’t know the truth: I was also the mother of his child, and he left everything to us to protect us. They never knew about our baby because they had gone no contact years before. © Mary / Bright SideMy dad died three years ago and left me quite a substantial estate. I worked with him all my life at the businesses, and I run them now. Six months ago, a girl came to me and told me that she was my half-sister. We did DNA tests, and yeah, she is. We spent some time together, I introduced her to other people in the family, and until now I thought things were well.
Last week, she came to me and asked me what I’d think about giving her her fair share of the inheritance. She told me that she knows that I was at our father’s side when he built everything, and it’s unfair to ask for half of everything, but maybe a quarter or a fifth is a reasonable share. I told her that her fair share is zero. She became angry, told me how unfair it was that she’s the one who was abandoned, and I was the one who had everything in my life, and even now, I get everything, and she gets nothing.
She is quite close to my grandparents. Having her around has probably helped them move on. So I wasn’t surprised when my grandfather called me and told me that I’m not being fair here. That she’s my sister, and I should come to some agreement with her about this. He eventually told me that he’s very disappointed in me. He’s never said that to me before. © InheritenceNightmare / RedditWe inherited money from my husband’s great aunt, each grandchild in the family got equal amounts. His sister asked us to give her $10,000 from our portion because she had kids, and we didn’t. It stung because she knew we were struggling with infertility. © istheresugarinsyrup / Reddit

My grandfather caught a big fish one day, and he had it mounted on the wall when I was growing up. When my grandfather died, my cousin asked my grandmother if she could have the fish, and she said yes. Now, my dad was with him when he caught that fish, so he laid claim to it too. My grandmother died a year or two after my grandfather did, but my cousin and my father each laid claim to that fish, and they fought over it intensely. My cousin (my dad’s sister’s daughter) ended up keeping it, and they have hated each other ever since.
15 years later, when I got married, my dad was not going to come to my wedding because I invited my cousin too. It was only when my cousin said she couldn’t make it that my dad finally agreed to come to HIS OWN SON’S WEDDING THAT HE WAS GOING TO SKIP BECAUSE OF MY COUSIN WHO ENDED UP KEEPING THAT FISH. © mediumokra / RedditMy parents were never divorced. My brother and I, their only children, cared for them. They always said, “We’re proud of you—you’ll inherit everything.” But after they died, we opened the will—neither of us was included. My brother called me in tears: “Did you know they signed everything away to settle an old car accident?”
Years ago, when we were kids, Dad had hit a man with his car. The victim’s family threatened to sue unless they were paid a huge sum. Mom and Dad thought they could manage small payments over time, but eventually the family demanded the full amount. To protect us, they sacrificed our inheritance to settle the debt. They never told us, and my brother only found the agreement hidden in the will. © Harvey / Bright Side

My brother passed away. It wasn’t sudden as he had been sick for several years. His life insurance named me as the beneficiary because I had been helping with his medical bills. My sister demanded I split it, saying, “It was meant for family.” I refused. A week later, her 8-year-old daughter came up to me, confused, and said, “Auntie, why did you steal my college money?” Hearing those words from a child broke me more than the actual fight. We haven’t spoken since. © Amy / Bright SideI (45F) recently lost both of my parents within a year. For the past ten years, I was their primary caregiver—I managed their finances, drove them to doctors’ appointments, cooked, cleaned, and was there for them emotionally through everything. My two siblings, David (48M) and Lisa (42F), lived out of state and hardly ever visited. They had stable jobs and could have helped, but mostly they just called sometimes and said they were too busy to do anything else.
When the will was read, it said that I would inherit the entire estate. David and Lisa are furious, saying it’s unfair and that I should split it three ways. They keep saying “family should stick together” and accuse me of being greedy. I’ve told them that I carried the burden of their care alone for years, and this inheritance was meant to acknowledge that. Now they’re threatening to sue. © LittleTweet42 / RedditMy ex-fiancé left me 3 months before our wedding. We had only moved into our new house 6 months prior. He moved out, and I wanted to buy him out. I was able to afford it with a little help from my folks by way of early inheritance, only a small chunk. My brother went absolutely mental and told my parents that they definitely could not give me any inheritance early, it was completely unfair, and it would affect how much money he would receive when my parents died.
My dad effectively told him that if he wasn’t careful, he’d be written out of their will completely. He also told my brother that he was in no position to tell him or my mum what they could or couldn’t do with their money. My brother sulked for around six months and didn’t speak to anyone in the family. © Unknown author / RedditAnd then there’s Annie’s story. She was the one who lived with Grandma, cared for her every day, and never missed an appointment. When the will left everything to her, it seemed simple. But her sister soon pulled out an old letter—one that changed how the whole family saw her.

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