100 Questions to Ask Your Crush When You’re Ready to Open Up

Nothing can make your mind go blank quite like having a crush. But how do you get to know your crush better if you find it hard to form complete sentences around them? If you’re struggling to come up with what to talk about with your crush, well, we have 100 questions to keep in your back pocket for the next time you see them (or after you’ve slid into your crush’s DMs).

Below, we’ve compiled a list of good questions to ask your crush that will help you get to know them better. Whether you’re looking for questions to ask IRL or while texting, these questions are open-ended and insightful, so they’ll allow for deeper conversation and maybe even a romantic connection to form (especially should you choose to incorporate some of the sexy and spicy questions on this list).

And while these questions are best suited for a crush, there are plenty of questions for couples in the mix. In fact, many of these are multi-purpose, and make for juicy questions to ask your friends, fun questions to ask your partner, or even intimate questions to ask your partner.

Feel free to pick and choose questions from this list directly or tailor some of the questions so they make more sense depending on your relationship with this person. Just note that these flirty questions to ask your crush are only a starting point that will hopefully spark even more conversation. Then, when it’s time to take things up a notch, don’t forget to read up on the best questions to ask on a first date, too.

— Additional reporting by Taylor Andrews