If You Always Put Off Taking Care Of Yourself, Check Out These 32 Products To Help Relax
1. A set of delightfully ~~tingly~~ self-heating soothing foot masks made with Epsom salts, lavender, and peppermint perfect for anyone whose recent step count is “too many.” Nothing like a lil’ self-care on those aching feet to lift your spirits!Â
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Check out a TikTok of the foot masks in action.Â
I’m a long-ish distance runner, and these were certainly an interesting experience for my feet! You slide them on and, after a few minutes, feel a tingling, mildly burning (in a good way) sensation. It doesn’t quite numb your feet, but it relaxes them. I kept them on for 30 minutes and then toweled my feet off, and the tingling sensation slowly faded over the next 30 minutes. After that my feet felt very refreshed and relaxed at a time of day when they’re usually aching from all the miles I put in. The whole thing was a mess-free, easy process, and I will definitely keep them on hand for longer run days!Â
Get a set of three pairs from Amazon for $11.69.Â
2. A “Through The Seasons” Reverse Coloring Book, which is a newer edition of the original Reverse Coloring Book that took the internet by storm â reviewers swear by this easy, calming artistic outlet to help ease their anxiety, relieve stress, and unleash their inner creativity without taking up too much brainpower.Â
For those new to the concept â Instead of adding the color to these, you add the lines to create images within the colors. Sort of like a Rorschach test, but make it whimsical.Â
Promising review: “Kendra Nortonâs beautiful art books, Reverse Coloring books, have changed my world! My whole life I thought I was not creative and therefore had zero artistic ability. Now this has become my favorite form of artistic expression. I turn on music and/or an audiobook and allow myself to go for an adventure outside of my mind, beyond my mind, if you will. This has become my favorite way to process through difficult emotions and experiences Iâm working through.” âK. DeWitt
Get it from Amazon for $8.29.Â
(Psst â check out these cult-fave black fine point pens for $8.99 on Amazon for a good doodling option!)Â
3. An affordable cult-favorite luxury-scented candle with a scent reminiscent of Le Labo’s Santal 33, and a throw so satisfying that reviewers can’t stop gushing about it. If you’re in the market for a signature scent for your space, look no further than this jasmine, oud, and sandalwood blend. Lulu Candles is a US-based small business that specializes in scented candles and perfumes.Â
Promising review: “This is such a great candle that fills the room quickly with a really nice strong smell that is soothing and relaxing. I was looking for a less expensive Le Labo Santal 33 scent candle and this one is very very close! It’s a bit stronger, but I love it! The shipment arrived fast, and I just love how fast it fills up the room without being lit for so long!” âCristina Bertolotto
Get it from Amazon for $19.95+ (available in three sizes, in gift box options, in packs of two, and in a variety of scents). Â
4. A pair of wireless sleep headphones to play white noise or the music of your choice in a comfy headband, so you can enjoy the calm of it all night long (and block out the unrepentant snoring of certain people and/or pets).
Promising review: “These are great! I’ve struggled with insomnia for the past couple of years. I wish I’d found these sooner. They are extremely comfortable. When I fall asleep, I rarely sleep for more than an hour straight. These allow me to comfortably play a podcast or meditation to get myself back to sleep. I’m only two nights in on using these and I know I don’t want to be without them. Battery life is great. I probably played them for a total of five hours during the night and woke up them still having 70% battery remaining. I probably won’t use these for workout because I don’t have to wash them all the time, but for insomnia or anyone who just likes to fall asleep listening to something, these are amazing.” âJesse Brown
Get it from Amazon for $19.99Â (available in 19 colors).Â
5. No Worries: A Guided Journal, a popular self-guided journal designed to help with managing anxiety, stress, and the general “adkfjgaldkjfgalkj” in your brain. Each day has a similar set of prompts for 12 undated weeks to help you reflect on your thought patterns and sources of anxiety, and gradually find self-care practices and management strategies that suit you best. Promising review: “Iâve never been a journal or diary person, but needed an outlet for my anxiety and stress. Each day has the same two-page spread that prompts you to think about your day, how you felt, and why you felt that way. There isnât really any inspiration or advice, just open lines for your thoughts without it being an intimidating blank page. This journal has already helped me see patterns in my thoughts/emotions and I feel better overall. I would recommend this journal to anyone.” âKari Madsen
Get it from Amazon for $9.95.Â
6. Eos’ Shea Butter Vanilla Cashmere body lotion, which TikTok is going *feral* over both because the lightweight, long-lasting moisture, and the soothing, delicious smell that reviewers compare to more expensive brands like Philosophy and Bath & Body Works.Â
Promising review: “Heaven sent for your skin; heavenly scent to enjoy. This feels absolutely amazing going on. Gets absorbed quickly, for a lotion rich with oil. Doesn’t leave a greasy feeling, as long as you give it a minute or two to fully absorb. The scent is, for me anyway, like aromatherapy. It smells like an iced sugar cookie, and is a great base layer for fragrance. Very relaxing.” âDragonheart Jo
Get it from Amazon for $8.98.Â
7. A NeeDoh Nice Cube, an *elite* sensory fidget toy for anyone who wants to add more calm into their life, but with a dose of whimsy. This goo-filled, delightfully colorful fidget has a satisfying squish and weight to it, and reviewers love that it doesn’t have the kind of stickiness that picks up debris and makes it hard to clean.Â
Promising review: “High quality and very durable! This cube is fantastic for any age and any need. The cube provides slight resistance when compressed, which is both stress-relieving and satisfying!!! Once squeezed, it quickly returns to its natural shape. A great choice!” âJoe stevenson
Get it from Amazon for $8.19Â (the color is either blue, pink, or purple and gets selected for you at random!).Â
8. A ridiculously soft oversize hoodie reviewers compare to $$ brands like Skims, Aritzia, and Abercrombie. You know how on TikTok sometimes people say “this hoodie hoodies” like it’s a noun and a verb? Enter this cult-favorite, reviewer-beloved hoodie, which does, in fact, hoodie.Â
Promising review: “Iâm obsessed with this hoodie. Iâve been looking for a warm, soft hoodie with a big hood for a long time. This quality is excellent and feels more expensive. It is an oversized fit. I usually wear an XL top and sometimes L. The large fit perfectly! I want one in every color now.” âLindsayW
Get it from Amazon for $36.99+ (available in women’s sizes XSâXL and 26 colors).Â
9. A heated eye massager with so many bells and whistles, it’s worth the investment and *then* some â not only does it come with five different massage modes and a 15-minute timer, but it has Bluetooth music so you can vibe with your eyes *and* your ears. Reviewers swear by this to help combat eye strain, headaches, puffy under-eye circles, and dry eyes, and insomnia. Promising review: “I saw this product on one of Amazonâs must-have TikTok videos and I knew I had to get it. It was so worth it â even though price may seem higher compared to other sellers, this is for sure a good investment piece. The quality is top notch, the strap that goes around your head is comfortable, and most importantly, the duration of each mode is long enough that it doesnât interrupt your rest. I work a 12-hour night shift as a nurse and this technology has helped me get through the night easilyđđœđđœđđœ” âAmazon Customer
Get it from Amazon for $70.99Â (available in three colors).Â
10. Plus a pair of horizontal glasses to let you read while lying down, because being unable to read without starfishing on your bed feels like a scam. Now you can out-scam it.Promising review: “I saw these on a couple of TikTok videos and immediately bought them. They are literally the best thing Iâve ever bought. I was scared they wouldn’t fit over my glasses but they do just fine. I use them to read, watch TV, and scroll through my social media all while lying down. Such a great buy!” âKivy
Get them from Amazon for $12.98.Â
11. A copy of Burn After Writing, a guided journal that tens of thousands of reviewers swear by â through a series of questions and thought experiments, it encourages people to take time away from their screens to explore their feelings, both new and old, so they can embrace meaningful ones and try to let others go.Â
Promising review: “I first saw this book on TikTok and decided to look more into it. I purchased four total because I know some people holding onto things that are difficult to let go of. Itâs a great way to look at things from a different perspective and truly hold yourself accountable to different things in your life. I love what it stands for and I look forward to when I burn mine after Iâm done. Self love, self care, and meditation for a better state of mind tomorrow is always the goal. I definitely recommend it to those susceptible to change and the willingness to try things different.” âBrent Helm
Get it from Amazon for $7.32. Â
12. “The Secret Soup,” yet another addition to the cult-favorite Magic Puzzle series so beloved on TikTok. Like the others before it, this whimsically illustrated, colorful addition isn’t just a puzzle but a journey â there are tons of Easter eggs in it, a collection of miniature scenes full of optical illusions and surprises, *plus* a magical twist at the end. You’ll have to solve the puzzle to find out! 13. A copy of The Book of Myself: A Do-It-Yourself Autobiography in 201 Questions perfect for any stage of life, if you’re looking for something structured and soothing to do on a night off that will also help you preserve your favorite memories.
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This book is a kind of DIY memoir â it goes through three phases of “Early,” “Middle,” and “Later” years, and has 201 different prompts based on your memories, experiences, and views on the world. Prompts include things like what you would have switched careers to midway through if given the chance, or a present you got from your parents that sticks in your memory, or who you think the funniest person in your family is. This also makes for a lovely gift for family members, so you can all preserve each other’s memories!
Get it from Amazon for $9.99Â or from Bookshop (to support local bookstores) for $15.81.
14. A bath pillow and full body mat that laughs in the face of your ordinary teensy bath pillows. Neck support is cute, but full body ridiculous plush comfort?? Is precisely where it’s at. Hop in, friend. The wine is poured and that romance novel isn’t going to read itself.Â
Bath Haven is a small business specializing in bathroom and personal care products.Â
Promising review: “We just installed a new tub in our master bathroom. The tub has a steeper slope than our previous. So we were looking for a pillow that provided head rest and back support. The Bath Haven pillow indeed provides both and is very comfortable. The linen material is soft and feels great. Definitely worth the price vs cheaper plastic pillows.” âAlan Z.Â
Get it from Amazon for $36.99.Â
15. Plus a set of ~EXTRA LARGE~ fizzy aromatherapy bath bombs handmade with lavender, peppermint, and orange essential oils so you can live your fizziest, calmest, most well-moisturized bathtub life. Read more about aromatherapy and stress and tension at Johns Hopkins.
Promising review: “I have been using bath bombs for years. I’ve used cheap brands, drugstore brands, luxury brands (Lush, YL) and more. This box gives all bath bombs I’ve tried a run for the money! The packaging was super cute and totally giftable. I was really impressed at the quality of the bath bomb itself too (I used Heal tonight) and I love that this uses natural essential oils. This bomb gave me the most serene experience and they are HUGE! At least double the size of ones I’ve used before. Comparable to the size of Lush bombs. I will definitely purchase this box again when I run out and honestly it’s a great price at a little more than $2 apiece. You really can’t beat it!” âHeather H
Get a set of 12 from Amazon for $29.99.
16. And a wine caddy for the bathtub, for those times you don’t just need to relax but need to relaaaaaaaaax. đ·
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SipCaddy is a US-based small business that specializes in shower beer and wine bath holders. Bonus: it also holds cans, so they can pop in a LaCroix or enjoy a shower PBR, too.
Promising review: “Loved how easy this was to put in my shower and use for anything from holding beverages to face wash. Gifted it to two friends and my boyfriend who at first mocked it but now LOVES it. Iâd consider traveling with it at this point.” âMB Schatz
Get it from Amazon for $12.95Â (available in six colors).
17. A pair of delightfully chic open-toed memory foam slippers so you can get all the comfort and support of these cozy soles *without* overheating. Reviewers compare the style to Uggs, and because the soles are anti-slip and water resistant, you can also wear them out running errands đ.Â
Promising review: “These slippers are amazing. They are so comfortable and look so expensive and high quality for the low price. Great for after the shower and wearing around the house and super easy to wash in the washing machine. I’ve had these for over a year, and they are still in perfect condition.” âSydney Nicole
Get it from Amazon for $24.99 (available in women’s sizes 6.5â12 and five colors).Â
18. A Renpho percussion massager you don’t even know how badly you need until you’re using it â this gizmo is great for helping to releasing knots, aches, and muscle tension, whether you got it from working at a desk too long or an intense workout.Check out a TikTok of the massager in action.Â
Promising review: “I have tried EVERYTHING for my feet, nothing works and I am always in pain. I tried it out and I thought wow, that feels AWESOME. But the true test is how do you feel the next day right? You cannot always walk around with a massage gun in your hand. The next day, I felt AMAZING. AMAZING. I used it on my hubby’s back too, and he said he felt so much better today as well! In addition, this one is way QUIETER than my original massage gun. It’s just really a quality piece. You won’t be disappointed in this one. It really is what it says. I know it is hard to choose from all the models on the internet, but this one is the real deal. It’s worth the money if you have pain.” âL Johnson
Get it from Amazon for $89.99Â (available in three colors).
19. And a rotating, heated back and neck massager to work out all of the knots in your odds and ends all on your own â 11/10 would not be surprised if this knocks the entire hierarchy of your BFF list to get the number one spot. Promising review: “Can I give this thing 10 stars?!? Since the pandemic hit, I’ve had to forgo my monthly massage. I’ve also had a ton more stress than normal. I carry my stress in my shoulders and neck, and I’ve found it difficult to sleep due to neck/shoulder pain. I live alone and no amount of stretching or self-massage was working. Enter this massager â OH MY GOD! Amazing! I got it out of the box, plugged it in and put it to work. My neck cracked/popped multiple times from my muscles releasing. I feel SO much better. Highly recommend!!” âCLester
Get it from Amazon for $39.99+Â (available in two colors).
20. A supremely soft hooded bathrobe reviewers say serves some Barefoot Dreams energy â it’s lightweight, ridiculously plush, has pockets (!!), and is designed to never shed. Truly, no notes.Â
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Promising review: “Amazing, I absolutely loved it! Fits perfectly and the length is really good. The material is comfortable, warm and hasn’t faded after washed. I also like the pattern of this robe. Now it is part of my daily wardrobe.” âIvy
Get it from Amazon for $39.99 (available in seven styles).Â
21. A light up rain cloud essential oil diffuser that looks like it was pulled out of your dizziest daydreams. Reviewers especially love how soothing the color changes and sounds of the water flow are. (And that both are fully adjustable!)
Check out a TikTok of the rain cloud diffuser in action.
Promising review: “Love it! Itâs so super cute! We call it our shroomcloud. It’s peaceful and the mood changing colors are the best! I love hearing the subtle sound of water. Ahhh, zen! Works great as a diffuser with a few drops of your favorite essential oils, too.” âKrissyÂ
Get it from Amazon for $39.98.Â
22. A “Cup Cozy Pillow” to up your movie snack game to its highest potential â this has expandable cup holes to fit mugs, water bottles, and snacks, with an insulating foam that keeps drinks hot or cold for longer periods. It even comes with four snack holes so you can share with the person next to you (or just make yourself a glorious TV charcuterie pillow).Â
Cup Cozy Pillow is a small business that specializes in family-friendly snack and drink organizers.Â
Check out a TikTok of the Cup Cozy Deluxe Pillow in action.
Promising review: “This thing is great! Iâm home on maternity leave with my new baby and spend most of my time on the couch under a sleeping baby. This product makes it easy for me to keep my drinks, remote, etc close by even with dogs running around. Itâs a little more expensive than I would have liked but it works and I love it so money well spent!” âAmber
Get it from Amazon for $34.99. Â
23. A shampoo scalp massager you can use in the shower to massage and exfoliate your scalp, so you can get all of the relaxing decadence of feeling like someone is massaging your head without physically going to a salon. Psst â a lot of reviewers mention this has also helped with psoriasis, dandruff, and scalp tenderness!Emma Lord/BuzzFeed
I started using one of these a few months ago and WOWZA, it really helps you get extra mileage out of your shampoo. I have a whole lot of hair on my head so sometimes it’s a struggle to feel like I’ve soaped up my whole scalp thorough, but this was a very effective way to spread out the suds and really get them to the roots. I was worried it might tangle in my hair, but it was totally fine on that front, too. I’ve noticed that my hair has been a little less greasy at the roots since I started using it. And I’m echoing a ton of reviewers here when I say it just feels reeeeeally, really nice.
Promising review: “I saw this little thing all over TikTok and everyone swore by it. To be honest, theyâre right and I now swear by it. Itâs perfectly soft and sturdy to massage the scalp. Works shampoo into roots, helps with dry skin and such. I absolutely love it and I use it every time I wash my hair. I most definitely would recommend to anyone. Donât hesitate.” âZ
Get it from Amazon for $6.98+ (available in three colors).
24. A set of starry evening eye masks to add a little bit of ~glamour~ to your night in and to the next morning, when you wake up bright-eyed, de-puffed, and utterly refreshed from the hyaluronic acid and collagen.Â
Promising review: “Smells sooo good! I love that these masks stop at the cheek bones. The mask feels like a soft cloth with a wonderful night time smell that relaxes you.” âLisa
Get a pack of three sets from Amazon for $7.99 (also available in a full eye mask).Â
25. A gorgeous pastel paint-by-number you can get in all kinds of intricate, deeply satisfying patterns for anyone who is looking for an activity that pairs perfectly with a screen-free night in.Â
Each set comes with a detailed numbered outline, four brushes, and a set of numbered acrylic paints with extra to spare.
Promising review: “Colorful and fun! This is the third paint-by-number Iâve done, and by far the most challenging. Lots of fine point detail, and the paint brushes included were adequate, unlike other PBN sets Iâve bought.” âEmily cox
Get it from Amazon for $15.99+Â (available in 12 styles).
26. A calming, beginner-friendly terrarium starter kit to introduce some peace into your human existence when you need it most. This comes with everything you need to build your own little oasis, including moss, soil, pebbles, plant food, tools, and a comprehensive how-to guide.Â
Cute Farms is a small business that specializes in plant products and DIY terrarium sets.Â
The set comes in three different sizes depending on what kind of structure you’re using your your terrarium â if you don’t already have one in mind, you can check out some fun terrarium options on Amazon!Â
Promising review: “Love! This kit was super helpful with building my first plant terrariumâŠeverything I needed other than the succulents was included. Thinking Iâll be ordering more to create terrariums for family as gifts (weâre all plant lovers).” âlove whisper
Get it from Amazon for $24.95Â (available in three sizes).Â
27. A splash-proof spa foot tub so you can enjoy the most decadent of Friday nights with a glass of wine in one hand, a book in the other, and both feet getting acquainted with the water jets and ~invigorating bubbles~ of this glorious gizmo.
Promising review:Â “I love to come home after a long day on my feet and just put my feet into this foot bath. Love the vibration. It feels so good. Highly recommended.” âziggy
Get it from Amazon for $29.74+Â (available in two colors).
28. A tiny milk frother to make rich, creamy froths in seconds, because why stop at regular tea and coffee when you can have velvety-soft milk tea and lattes?
Promising review: “So Iâll admit I got this on a whim after a TikTok video, however Iâm in love with this thing! Itâs so much fun to use and you make your at home drinks feel so much more special. Itâs easy to use and froths pretty quickly if youâre on the fence Iâd say what are you waiting for buy it already!” âDenise
Get it from Amazon for $14.99+Â (available in 44 styles).
29. A dreamy dimmable candle warmer lamp so you can waft your favorite candles throughout your space in the most aesthetically pleasing (and safe!) way possible.Â
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Promising review: “Works wonders. The aroma from this wax burner is amazing. It works great. I love the timer on it for safety reasons. Overall itâs safer than lighting a candle. Everyone compliments it. I love it.” âPretty Things
Get it from Amazon for $29.98 (available in two styles).Â
30. A TikTok-beloved astronaut-shaped star projector to elevate your cozy vibes so high they’ll be ~out of this world~. This has eight different nebula effects you can project from the wall and control from a remote so you can finally be fully immersed in that self-insert Star Wars fan fic you keep writing in your head.Â
Promising review: “I bought this after seeing it on TikTok. I wasnât sure how great it would be and the price was a little high to me but I bought it anyways. After getting it and seeing how badass it is I would definitely say itâs worth the money!! The lights are so cool and bright. My kids and husband love it!” âShelby Fulford
Get it from Amazon for $34.99+ (available in four colors).
31. A mini illuminated relaxation waterfall for your desk or your bedside table so you can have a lil’ bit of nature to destress when you need it most.Â
Promising review: “Awesome addition to my workspace environment. I’ve tried several fountains so far. This one is awesome, the pump is quiet, as is the water, it simply provides a really nice environmental impact on my workspace. I run it up to eight hours in a day, use distilled water only, and clean it periodically, and it’s running just like new after several weeks. Not all of the fountains that I’ve tried work quite so well, I’m impressed and happy with this purchase.” âRod_CdA
Get it from Amazon for $44.99.Â
32. A set of miniature moon and star crystals to introduce some calm and mindfulness into your life â this lovely, beginner-friendly set includes explanation cards for what qualities each stone possesses, and how you can apply them to your life.Â
Promising review: “Bought for one of my girls for Christmas. Super cute, and she was able to place them around her room. They’re small, but I think they were worth the price.” âleslie
Get a set of 14 Amazon for $10.99.Â
Reviews have been edited for length and/or clarity.
