Lizzo Put a Man Named Dwayne on Blast for a Rude Comment About Her Weight Loss
Iâm once again asking: Stop commenting on womenâs bodies! Or you may end up like Dwayne, the man that Lizzo put on blast after he rudely insinuated that her weight loss was attributed to either âozempic or coke.â
Lizzo was simply minding her business on Instagram, sharing photos of her latest lookâdrawstring leather shorts; a cotton bodysuit by her shapewear brand, Yitty; lace-up platform sneakers; and fresh braidsâwhen along came Dwayne. According to Lizzoâs screenshots, he wrote in the comments, âdid she use ozempic or did she snort coke.â
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The 36-year-old addressed his comments in a September 21 follow-up post, which she captioned sarcastically, ââoZeMpIc oR cOkE?â – a fan đđđđ.â In the carousel, the âJuiceâ singer shared a video of herself lounging in a silk robe along with a text overlay reading, âwhen you finally get the ozempic allegations after 5 months of weight training and calorie deficit.â
The third slide of the carousel is a screenshot of his comment, to which she had replied, âwhyyyy do you follow me?â The fourth slide is a photo of Dwayneâs profile, which is private. I will not share his identifying information, because Lizzo already did that, but let Dwayneâs mistake be a lesson to us all.
As mentioned by others in the comments, thereâs no need to shame Ozempic usersâthatâs not the issue here. The issue is the need to speculate about womenâs bodies, period. You donât know why or how someone lost (or gained!) weight, and just because you noticed a personâs changing body does not mean that you are owed an explanation. A reminder for all the fans who may have formed a parasocial relationship with Lizzo: Sheâs a stranger! You donât know her like that! Sheâs not obligated to share anything with you.
Some may argue that Lizzoâs role as a champion of body positivity means that her weight is fair game for discussion. To that Iâd say the opposite is true. Her advocacy for fat girls is not nullified if she loses weight, and she is by no means obligated to maintain a certain size. Also, in her own words, Lizzo still identifies as fat. (Well, âfhickââa portmanteau of âfatâ and âthick,â as she calls it.)
Unfortunately, diet culture has ingrained this idea that itâs perfectly normal to discuss a personâs body in public, or to speculate about their health the way an amateur meteorologist might speculate about the possibility of rain. Itâs time to change that. Donât be like Dwayne.