29 Self-Care Products To Help Treat Yourself To A Relaxing Night In
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29 Self-Care Products To Help Treat Yourself To A Relaxing Night InBecause you deserve a “don’t worry, be happy” type of night.
1. A bathtub tray for a relaxing spa night away from the spouse, roommates, or kids. It is adjustable to fit the width of most bathtubs and has silicone grips to keep it in place. The best parts, though, are the wine holder and tablet stand, aka necessities.Â
The bathtub tray is built with bamboo and has a layer of waterproof varnish making it durable and sturdy.Â
Promising review: “Looks great. Handle books, phones, iPads, wine glass, etc. Got this for my wife who has started to enjoy a leisurely bath. Saw her checking her phone in the bath and felt this would help prevent accidentally dropping her phone into the water. But really to add to her leisure. Was not sure how solid it would stay in place on the tub. Have only an inch or so on one side. But the provided grips to apply to each of the four corners are extremely effective. The tray feels like it is stuck in place. Very nice item.” âKevin22
Get it from Amazon for $27.88+Â (available in four colors).
2. And a box of organic bath bombs to enhance your bath experience even more. If your body has been tight from the freezing cold, use the “muscle relief.” There’s one for all your winter woes! Just take a dip and watch the bubbles fizz around you â be gone, stress. Amazon
Promising review: “I love these bath bombs! They all smell fantastic and make such a wonderful soothing and relaxing bath. These are good sized bombs for my large tub. I only use all natural body products and I am so grateful to find a company that is committed to making quality, all natural products!” âBama
Get a six-pack from Amazon for $35.99.
3. Or a pack of six aromatherapy shower steamers that’ll take your deluxe showers to a whole new level! Just place one in the corner of your shower floor and let the steam release the fragrant essential oils, including lavender, eucalyptus, vanilla, watermelon, grapefruit, and peppermint. Prepare to feel all of your stress melt away. đRead more about aromatherapy and stress and tension at Johns Hopkins.
Promising review: âThese are the best shower steamers I’ve ever tried. Usually they aren’t strong enough or they melt too quickly to even enjoy. They are also bigger than what you can buy at the store. One lasted my entire shower and still smelled amazing even after I was done. These are the best shower steamers hands-down. I would definitely buy these again.â âKristaÂ
Get it from Amazon for $12.99.
4. A shampoo scalp massager to exfoliate and massage your scalp in the shower for a DIY spa experience. Plus, if you have psoriasis, dandruff, or a tender scalp, reviewers mention that this nifty thing could help!BuzzFeed Shopping writer Emma Lord also swears by hers. Here’s her rave review: “I own one of these and WOWZA, it really helps you get extra mileage out of your shampoo. I have a whole lot of hair on my head so sometimes it’s a struggle to feel like I’ve soaped up my whole scalp thorough, but this was a very effective way to spread out the suds and really get them to the roots. I was worried it might tangle in my hair, but it was totally fine on that front, too. I’ve noticed that my hair has been a little less greasy at the roots since I started using it. And I’m echoing a ton of reviewers here when I say it just feels reeeeeally, really nice.”
Promising review: “I saw this little thing all over TikTok and everyone swore by it. To be honest, theyâre right and I now swear by it. Itâs perfectly soft and sturdy to massage the scalp. Works shampoo into roots, helps with dry skin and such. I absolutely love it and I use it every time I wash my hair. I most definitely would recommend to anyone. Donât hesitate.” âZ
Get it from Amazon for $7.59+Â (available in three colors).
5. A smart stone that one-ups traditional gua sha stones. It has nine levels of vibration and heat to help reduce any tightness and bring you complete relaxation. It can also help reduce puffiness and improve circulation â a self-care necessity.Â
Promising review: “I’ve been using this gua sha tool for a few weeks now and I’m already seeing a difference in my skin texture and tone. The natural sibin bian stone feels luxurious and the red light therapy has helped reduce my acne and inflammation. The customizable heat and vibration settings make it easy to personalize my self-care routine. I have also been a longtime user of gua sha on my shoulders for whenever I feel overheated. Using the smart stoneâs vibration and red light makes me feel even more relaxed! Overall, I’m very impressed with this product and would highly recommend it to anyone looking to elevate their self-care game!” âThe Amazonian
Get it from Amazon for $55Â (available in two styles).
6. A stainless-steel rainfall showerhead for a luxurious at-home pampering that’s a *fraction* of the price of going to the spa. You can pretend you’re standing in the Amazon Rainforest but with more warmth and cleanliness.Â
Promising review: “This is a beautiful showerhead, very thin, but feels quite sturdy and heavy. Installation took no more than five minutes. The showerhead has a very smooth, highly polished, mirror-like chrome finish. It gives a satisfying showering experience without wasting too much water. Absolutely no leaks whatsoever. Everybody in our family said they liked it. What else is there to say about a showerhead?” âSadda Reddy
Get it from Amazon for $19.95+ (available in four sizes and four finishes).
7. A breathing owl that’ll provide you with a color-coordinated guided meditation. It indicates when to inhale, hold your breath, and exhale. I mean, how could you be upset looking at this adorable ‘lil thing?!Â
Not only does it guide your breathing, it can also emit seven white noise nature sounds and act as a night-light!
Promising review: “I just got my owl today. Used it for only five minutes and realized how quickly this meditation guide made me very aware of my breathing and stress even when not actively using it. I loved it so much I bought two more for family members. Really wonderful to find a rare, but useful item that doesnât cost a fortune but is invaluable. Use this before bed and throughout the day to reduce anxiety.” âD Willis
Get it from Amazon for $21.99Â (also available in a bunny, unicorn, or puppy).
8. A roll-on migraine stick to deal with your unavoidable headaches, especially after a long day of work or just…life. Just rub this peppermint, spearmint, and lavender essential oils formula onto your temples, forehead, and neck to soothe that pesky headache so you can truly relax.Read more about aromatherapy and stress and tension at Johns Hopkins.
Basic Vigor is a US-based small business specializing in all-natural migraine relief products.Â
Promising review: “Iâve had migraines all my life â Iâm 31 now. Iâve been on all kinds of prescriptions that work, but make me so sleepy… Iâve been using this stick for one week now, and itâs amazing! I rubbed it on at the first hint of a headache/migraine and it takes care of it fast. I havenât taken a prescription migraine med since I started using it.” âAmanda Braswell
Read BuzzFeed’s review of the migraine stick for more deets!
Get it from Amazon for $12.95.
9. Anua heartleaf pore-clearing cleansing oil that dissolves makeup residue, blackheads, and excess sebum *without* clogging pores or over-drying skin. Reviewers say that they could actually see the oils and gunk leaving their face â kinda gross, very satisfying, and a major slay.Â
BTW, a lot of reviewers say they use this as part of their double cleansing routine. As the name implies, double cleansing is a method of cleansing your face twice: first with an oil-based cleanser, and again with a water-based cleanser to help get all the yucky stuff out of your pores.
Promising reviews: “This is my first time ordering an oil-based cleanser and Iâm so glad I purchased this one. I originally saw this product on TikTok and wanted to see what the hype was all about. After using the cleanser on my dry face for 2â3 minutes, I could visibly see my white- and blackheads on my fingers. I was a little hesitant to try oil cleansing because I have acne-prone skin, however, my face has never looked better. After each use, my face is as soft as a baby’s bottom and my scarring doesnât look as deep! The cleanser has a light clean scent. Not super strong!” âMyshel Cagle
“Using an oil-based cleanser in addition to a water-based cleanser is life changing. My pores don’t fill up with gunk now! Or rather, I have an effective method of cleaning them, so I never notice clogged pores the way I used to. It’s so gentle on your skin, too. I absolutely love it and I’ll be a lifelong customer. I wish I’d had this as a teenager.” âBrooke W
Get it from Amazon for $17.69Â (also available in a mild version).
10. A box of pore-tightening, skin-lifting Skin1004 Zombie Pack face masks so you can get an at-home facial. They help to reduce fine lines and wrinkles, clear small breakouts, and deeply hydrate your skin. Don’t be frightened by the name â the mask cracks in areas that need moisture and is rough in areas that lack elasticity.Â
Promising review: “Smells great! This face mask does exactly what it says. My skin is nice and lifted, hydrated, noticeable reduction in fine lines, improved texture, reduced my pore size, and eliminated some newly developed rough patches forming around the hairline. Couldn’t be more satisfied with this product! I have pretty good skin, but this mask has really helped take my skin to the next level.” âSamantha
Get a box of eight masks from Amazon for $19.99.
11. Or an Elizavecca Milky Piggy carbonated bubble clay mask that’ll exfoliate your skin and remove blackheads for the ultimate spa experience. After applying it, wait five minutes for bubbles to form, remove the foam, and let the charcoal sit for a little before washing it off â fun and purifying!
Promising review: “I have very few skincare items I buy more than once. I LOVE this mask. It bubbles up upon application and the tiny bubbles bursting itch and tickle, but stick out the 10 minutes. The first time I used it, after washing it off you could literally see the junk and oil sitting on top of my skin as it had been pushed to the surface. The next morning my skin glowed. Def will be buying more.” âAlice D.
Get it from Amazon for $9.99.
12. A self-care weekly tracker to plan your week ahead of time. It comes with goals that you can assign for each day, such as putting your phone down and “live! laugh! love!” How adorable!Â
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Promising review: “Iâm a fan of these types of lists, so when I saw this it was a great reminder to be more intentional with my own self-care. Even in small ways, setting goals for time to be mindful is a good idea, so having a plan for my week is helpful! Thanks for the assist!!” âSuz
Get it from Amazon for $10.95.
13. A calm and de-stress soy wax candle infused with essential oils and smells of bergamot, lavender, and lemongrass. For a relaxing night in, light up one of these for an amazing aroma â it will not disappoint. Candlelit bath? UMM YES PLEASE.
Kindred Fires / Etsy
Kindred Fires is a small biz based in the UK that specializes in hand-poured and personalized candles that are just so darn adorable!
Promising review: “Bought one as a gift and decided to buy myself one, too! Beautifully packaged, comes with a card telling you exactly what scents have been used and what effects they have. Smells great without being overpowering. Can’t wait to use it!” âamyldonnan
Get it from Kindred Fires on Etsy for $27.55Â (also available in six other styles).
14. An ice roller so you can target puffy areas on your face and soothe inflamed skin, headaches, and even sore muscles! Even if you don’t need it, you can use it for a refreshing massage.Â
Promising review:Â “I went to a high-end spa that used one of these on my face. It felt so good so I ran home and found this on Amazon. This tool is the best. I use it for a thigh issue that needs to be iced frequently. It’s so easy â no bags of ice? Just use the freezer roller! I use it for headaches and on my face to feel good! I can’t say enough good things about this product â everyone should have one! My boyfriend loves it, too!” âRula
Get it from Amazon for $18.99+ (available in seven colors).
15. A copy of Burn After Writing for your deepest. darkest. secrets. These prompts range from wholesome to spicy to take journaling to another level. On different pages, you’ll have to choose between “this or that” questions, make your own bucket list, and more! Reviewers say that this book can be a great stress reliever.
Promising review: “I first saw this book on TikTok and decided to look more into it. I purchased four total because I know some people holding onto things that are difficult to let go of. Itâs a great way to look at things from a different perspective and truly hold yourself accountable to different things in your life. I love what it stands for and I look forward to when I burn mine after Iâm done. Self love, self care, and meditation for a better state of mind tomorrow is always the goal. I definitely recommend it to those susceptible to change and the willingness to try things different. Youâre so much more than whatâs been done to you and someoneâs inability to see your worth does not decrease your value. Choose you for a change.” âBrent Helm
Get it from Amazon for $7.70.
16. A Saem hydrating eye stick to reduce the appearance of dark circles, lines, and puffiness with Iceland mineral water, xylitol, moss and seaweed extract, and niacinamide â all without oils. For a top-notch experience, use after refrigeration to better help reduce puffiness.Â
It can also help tighten the appearance of eye wrinkles if you’d prefer for them not to be as noticeable.Â
Promising review: “I have always had bags and dark circles under my eyes and have tried sooooo many things. I was skeptical that this would work, but oh. my. goodness. This little stick is amazing. The puffiness was gone. Dark circles, still there some but definitely not as bad. It also smells really nice and absorbs instantly. Plus, the container is cute. I highly recommend to anyone else who has tried all the things and been disappointed.” âHeartsUnfold
Get it from Amazon for $9.99.
17. A microwavable deep-conditioning cap so you can ~chillax~ while you give your hair a ‘lil treatment with your favorite leave-in conditioners or oils. Just heat it up for a minute and leave it on your hair for half an hour for some gorgeous, soft locks.Â
Glow By Daye
Glow By Daye is a Black woman-owned business founded by Ranay Daye and based in Los Angeles. She sells a variety of bonnets, as well as silk pillowcases.
Promising review: “Upon just recently finding out that I have low porosity hair, I was informed that I need to deep condition with heat to assist with moisture. I love this cap! I love that it allows me to do other things while deep conditioning. Iâve used it twice since purchasing and it will be a staple in my routine! Also, thank you for the plastic caps that were included!” âL.N.
Get it from Glow By Daye for $37.97 (available in five colors) or Amazon for $37.96 (available in four colors).
18. A bottle of Cosrx snail mucin essence that helps soothe dehydrated skin and reduces dullness. It’s a cult favorite for a reason â it’s perfect for ALL skin types, even if you have oily skin!Â
BuzzFeed Shopping writer Emma Lord also swears by this. She writes: “I use this on my skin and definitely have noticed results! While it didn’t help completely kick my stubborn pre-period hormonal acne, it has done *wonders* with reducing redness on my face, particularly around my nose, and in dealing with my pores. Since I started using it, my primer and foundation goes on a whole lot smoother, and I’m struggling a whole lot less to cover my pores. After using it a few weeks, I read the advice of one reviewer to put this on when your face is slightly moist from washing, rub it in, let it dry, and then put your moisturizer on top of it â I’ve found that it’s what got me the best results!”Â
Promising review: “Recommended from a dermatologist, which is very important when choosing skincare. I use it in the morning after toner then follow up with a light moisturizer, vitamin C, then SPF, and my skin is glowing. Iâve received many compliments after incorporating this into my routine.” âE. Rice
Get it from Amazon for $20.Â
19. A shea sugar scrub here to make your skin silky smooth and smell scrumdiddlyumptious. The sugar, which is a natural exfoliant, will scrub away dead skin, and the shea butter will help moisturize and soften dry skin!
Check out a TikTok of it in action.
Promising review: “You simply will NOT believe how smooth and soft your skin is after just one use. Right out of the shower, your skin is transformed to near perfection! Iâm still in awe! With regular use, your skin becomes clear and all those dark spots and âstrawberry legsâ disappear. Iâve tried dozens of body scrubs and this one is hands down the best. TIP: Make sure your skin is slightly damp, NOT WET. If your skin is too wet, the exfoliating crystals melt without doing much. On damp skin, you can feel the crystals working their miracles. This is actually a good thing because you can customize the strength/harshness of the scrub to the sensitivity of your skin!” âLadyLoLinda
Get it from Amazon for $7.97+ (available in 30 scents).
20. An acupressure mat and pillow because after a long day of work, plopping down onto your couch just won’t cut it. This set helps to relieve tension and stress with over *7,000* acupressure points. After 10â30 minutes of lying on this mat, you will probably arise as a new person.Â
Read more about acupressure and stress at Cleveland Clinic.
Promising review: “Honestly a friend sent me a TikTok video on this item. I was like for $20 I’ll try it, and oh my god, I have lower back problems and 20 minutes lying on this spiking mat helped relieve pressure. I work remotely and am sitting down for 8â10 hours a day, so tension builds up and this totally worked. So many ways to try using the mat.” âArlington Ink
Get it from Amazon for $25.49+Â (available in 15 colors and two sizes).
21. A face steamer so you can open up your pores without needing to take a scorching hot shower. It also triples as a towel warmer and humidifier â the perfect spa night 3-in-1.Â
It also comes with a five-piece stainless steel blackhead and blemish extractor kit!
Promising review: “After having seen my esthetician for a few months, I asked her for a facial steamer she’d recommend for home use. She suggested this one and I have been using it nightly since receiving it. It is VERY user-friendly and certainly is making my skin look healthy and therefore, makeup looks better when I go out for the evening, etc. I highly recommend this product and as I use it with a towel over my head in order to keep the steam more focused on my face, it’s a complete joy and immensely relaxing.” âAntonia O.
Get it from Amazon for $39.95Â (available in two colors).
22. A heating pad for your sore neck, back, and honestly, entire body that has been working too hard. It heats up in just 20 seconds and will relieve any tension that’s been living within you.Â
Promising review: “This is the best heating pad I have ever bought. It is the perfect size and so soft. The 12 levels of temperature control are perfect. In the past I have had heating pads that are either surface of the sun hot or you can’t tell they are even on. I would absolutely recommend this one!” âKim Deal
Get it from Amazon for $24.99+Â (available in three styles).Â
23. And a heated massager so you can relieve your stress when you come home from work. You can use it on your back, neck, legs, and even your feet so you can knead out all those knots.
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Promising review: “I have horrific tension headaches and migraines. This thing melts them away so quickly. You can adjust the pressure by pulling on the handles or lay back into it. The heat is just enough to relax. I went around and around trying to decide if something like this was worth it and I finally just decided to try it. Trust me; buy the massager!” âKelly Dyer
Get it from Amazon for $47.99+Â (available in four colors).
24. A foot mask that peels off dead skin buildup on the soles of your feet and helps repair cracked heels. Just leave the masks on for about an hour, and within 7â14 days, your ~dogs~ will start to shed. It’ll basically turn you into a snake but in the best way possible. Kinda gross but also really satisfying, right?
Promising review: “I’ve worked retail for almost 30 years and it takes a toll on your feet. I recently had a deep crack develop in my heel and it hurt. After weeks of pampering my feet, putting Vaseline on them and sleeping in socks every night, and wearing only sneakers to work, I got the crack healed. I really needed a pedicure but I was afraid of the salon doing the cheese grater thing on my freshly-mended heel. I opted for this instead to hopefully shed some of the hardened skin before I get a spring pedicure. IT IS NOTHING SHORT OF A MIRACLE. After one application, my feet have all of this beautiful smooth skin! It feels so nice to get rid of all of that old, hard skin. I’m going to give it one more week and then I will go get a fresh pedicure. I can’t wait. Seriously, just buy this. It’s amazing and so easy. Plus, you get two applications. I’m saving the second one and will do that one in a couple of months.” âBeth
Get it from Amazon for $14.99+ (available in four scents).Â
25. A head massager thingy â it may not look super delightful, but once you try this bad boy out once, trust me: This is going to be the best feeling of. your. life. If you want your scalp and brain to tingle in the best way possible, this is exactly what you need.BuzzFeed Shopping contributor Katy Herman says, “My boyfriend got a two-pack of head massagers like this and gave me one. We now use them on each other constantly and I am eternally grateful. I’m struggling to keep my description of how good it feels family friendly, so that should give you an idea. It’s awesome when you have a headache or just need to relax. The only downside is it WILL mess up your hair (especially if you have curls or textured hair, reviewers note) and may get caught if your hair is tangled, so use it gently. It’s worth it!”
Promising review: “This was a great purchase. Relieves my headaches. Easy to use!” âelidita luna
Get a set of two from Amazon for $5.99.
26. A moisturizing TirTir milk toner if your skin needs a little hydration boost before moisturizing or putting on makeup. It’s formulated with chamomile, which reduces redness and irritation, and rice bran extracts to help even skin tone and enhance brightness.
PsstâŠIt’s also alcohol-free, paraben-free, and fragrance-free, making it perfect for even the most sensitive of skin.
Promising reviews: “For a toner, this is SO hydrating and just heavenly. It’s perfect for makeup prep as it has just a tad of tackiness right after applying. Goes on under my serums and moisturizer perfectly and I’ve noticed a huge difference in my skin. I saw it recommended by a YouTuber and tried it and it’s now a daily use for me, which is rare because I have very sensitive, acne-prone skin and I’m very picky about skincare. I can’t recommend this enough, truly.” âAmazon Customer
“One of my favorite finds from watching TikTok videos. Definitely worth the hype. Feels amazing on the skin. I keep it in the fridge!!” âVickyT
Get it from Amazon for $13+ (available in two sizes and a lighter version).
27. A super powerful massage gun because leg day is just not it, and your hammies and glutes are in agony. Or maybe you’ve been sitting at your desk and staring at your laptop for way too long, and your shoulders are as tight as ever. Lucky for your muscles, this massager will get out all those knots and aches with its five speeds and five different massage heads.Read more about what massage guns can (and canât) do, plus how to use them, at Cleveland Clinic.
Promising reviews:Â “I have had chronic issues with pain caused by severely knotted muscles. This massager changed my life! I have tried muscle relaxers, stretching, and many other things, but a couple of muscles in my upper back would just knot up with any stress, physical or emotional, and the pain was nearly constant. I used this for about a half-hour on all of my muscles with the first use, and the effects were immediate and profound. Pain relief was instant, and occasional use for a couple of minutes to the affected areas has been able to maintain that relief.” âPatty S.
“This product is amazing! It has helped my tight shoulders that Iâve struggled with for years. Itâs got such power and the battery life is really good. It also has an auto shut off feature so it doesnât overheat. I was skeptical about these things and whether they were worth it, but this one definitely is! As my boyfriend says, ‘This machine is life changing!'” âAnna McTaggart
Get it from Amazon for $69.99+ (available in six styles).
28. Bawdy butt sheet masks that leave your cheeks feeling moisturized and skin looking plump. They’ll help tone and contour your booty with some plant-based collagen so your full body can get a self-care treatment. Hey, your bum deserves some TLC, too!
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Promising review: “I love this! I put it on for about 10 to 15 minutes, and I can honestly say that I felt so much more hydrated, and I noticed some corrections in my skin tone. Iâm going to buy more. Iâm also very white, so you can see imperfections more easily if Iâm not tan, and this helped a lot.” âAM_Mama89
Get the “Bite It” mask from Amazon for $10 and find more versions here.
29. A set of YogaToes gem-shaped toe stretchers â you’re probably thinking, “What the heck are those?!” These little beauties are designed to help with bunion, hammer toe, or plantar fasciitis pain.Check with your doctor before starting any new personal care regimen. Note: These should be worn barefoot and not while wearing any shoes.Â
Watch this TikTok of the Yoga Toes in action.Â
Promising reviews: “I have an overlapping toe and a bunion that started forming on one foot. I use the YogaToes daily for 15â30 minutes to help create space between the toes and relax the feet. I love how my feet feel when I take them off and walk around. My feet feel stronger and more relaxed. I am a fitness instructor and also teach yoga. I use them before class for a few minutes. They help me feel more grounded as I move.” âDeirdre Sherman
“Iâm on my feet a lot. I use these at least 10 minutes every day and it has been a life-changing experience. It was painful at first but got better after a couple of days. Great pain reliever not only on the feet but I can feel it around my hips and lower back as well.” âKelly
Get it from Amazon for $36.95.Â
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