Rob Delaney says he wants to die in same room as his son
On July 7, 2024, 12:01 PM
The US actor and comedian Rob Delaney has said he wants to buy the home his son died in so he can also experience his last moments there.
Delaneyās two-year-old child Henry died in 2018 after being diagnosed with a brain tumour.
Delaney toldĀ Radio 4ās Desert Island DiscsĀ he asked the landlord when he moved out: āListen, if you ever go to sell this place, let me know first because I would like to buy it.
āSo when Iām 81 I can crawl in here and die. In the same room that my son died in, that my other son was born in.ā
Before Henry died, his parents told him they were expecting another child.
The Catastrophe and Deadpool 2 star said: āHe had to know that this family that loved him was alive and was growing and that there was somebody that we were going to tell about him.
āWe knew that they would not overlap corporally on this Earth, even though Henryās younger brother was born in the same room that Henry died in, our living room.ā
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The actor has campaigned for the NHS since the death of his son
Delaney, 47, told the programme that he and his wife, Leah, had considered leaving London but had continued to live in the city because of memories of Henry.
āFor so many reasons, weāve stayed, one of which is I like to go put my hands on slides at the playground that Henry slid down.ā
He added that he sometimes bumps into the nurses that looked after his son and said London and the NHS had taken very good care of his child.
Delaney has previously described the NHS as āthe pinnacle of human achievementā and that his family received ātruly unbelievableā care while Henry was sick.
Heart was ātorn into pieces and dissolved in saltā
Delaney thought he would struggle with the birth of his new son, saying his heart had ābeen torn into pieces and dissolved in saltā and was just āgarbageā.
But he told host Lauren Laverne that the ānanosecond he exited my wifeās body, I looked at him and just you know, started weeping and was so in love with him and just wanted to sniff them and eat them and put them into my shirt and squeeze them and I love him desperately.
āAnd then you have to feel and honour your pain. You have to let it hurt and you canāt run away from it. When the feelings come itās best to let them.ā
Delaney also spoke about his recovery from alcoholism, saying he has been sober for more than two decades after a car crash prompted him to stop drinking.
He added: āItās nothing more interesting than garden variety alcoholism, you know, I found that drinking just made me just feel better, complete, happier, relaxed.
āYou know, anytime I took a drink, it was just like, āthis is itā. I first got drunk at 12 and then began to drink with more regularity at 14.
āI had alcoholism on both sides of my family. And so then I got it too andā¦ it doesnāt really care where you come from.ā
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