Who Are ‘The White Lotus’ Stars Dating in Real Life?

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By now, The White Lotus has something of a reputation for its…shall we say…unconventional onscreen romances. Yet the show has also produced its fair share of real-life couples (okay, only one that we know of, but it’s a good one: Season 2’s Meghann Fahy and Leo Woodall)—and featured actors in some of our very favorite Hollywood relationships. Thailand is for lovers, as they may or may not say!

Here, ahead of the season finale on Sunday—and in honor of the last few weeks’ sundry sexual highjinks—a guide to the real-life partnerships enjoyed by the White Lotus cast members, from Patrick Schwarzenegger to Carrie Coon.

Patrick Schwarzenegger and Abby ChampionPhoto: Getty Images

The 31-year-old son of Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver is currently redefining the creepy preppy boy in his role as Saxon Ratliff on Season 3 of The White Lotus, but in real life, he seems to be pretty adorably coupled up with model Abby Champion; the pair became engaged in 2023.

Carrie Coon and Tracy LettsPhoto: Getty Images

I’ve wanted what Coon and Letts have for some time now, given they married back in 2013. (The two met, ironically enough, doing Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf in Chicago.) But they’re obviously still crazy about each other; they have a shared Letterboxd account, for goodness’ sake!

Sam Nivola and Iris ApatowPhoto: Getty Images

Nivola, the son of Emily Mortimer and Alessandro Nivola, has been dating Judd Apatow and Leslie Mann’s (younger) actor daughter for almost a year. Need these two to star in an adorable, self-aware comedy about two nepo babies who fall in love ASAP! I know Lena Dunham would crush that script.

Leslie Bibb and Sam RockwellPhoto: Getty Images

While Bibb and her bob(b?) have been busy stealing Season 3 of The White Lotus, Rockwell has also made an appearance, delivering a memorable monologue a few episodes ago. Together since 2007, the couple has shared the screen several times, most recently in 2015’s Don Verdean.

Walton Goggins and Nadia ConnersPhoto: Getty Images

While the actor behind Season 3’s Rick is definitely not boyfriend of the year to his onscreen partner Chelsea (Aimee Lou Wood), his real-life marriage to writer and director Nadia Conners dates back to 2011. The couple are parents to one teenage son named Augustus.

Michelle Monaghan and Peter WhitePhoto: Getty Images

Monaghan’s White Lotus character Jaclyn might be an actress in a messy relationship, but the IRL star has been married to Australian graphic and interior designer Peter White since 2005. “We maintain a pretty low-key and private life, which I treasure,” Monaghan said in a 2020 interview.